Hot Email Tips…

Hot Email Tips

So you’re an absolutely wonderful person. Congratulations! It’s time to convey that in writing.

Writing emails isn’t a rocket science, but if you keep the following nine email writing tips in mind, you’re bound to improve your chances of meeting the right person. And that’s the name of the game, guys and girls.

1… DON’T GET PERSONAL

People have a right to be worried about who they’re chatting with. You never know if someone is the crazed stalker type so asking details like what street they live on, places they frequent and where they work should be avoided in the beginning. Keep it general by asking questions like what area of the city they live in, what types of places they like to visit and what line of work they’re in. If they’re interested in being stalked, they’ll let you in on their address and which window you can throw rocks at to get their attention. Until that time, let them fill in the blanks. Always be a bit defensive at first.

2… ASK QUESTIONS

Great conversations require give and take. Asking people about themselves lets them know you’re interested and gives them something to write back about. Make sure you include there questions and your answers to them in your emails. Nothing worse than getting an email from someone with a whole bunch of answers, and you cant remember what your questions were.”

3… KEEP IT BRIEF

Most people don’t want to spend a lot of time on someone they don’t know and let’s face it, writing takes time. If you write a book, they may feel the need to write one back. Try and keep it to a few paragraphs and you’ll achieve better results and faster replies.

4… SPELLING

It can’t be said enough: make sure you spell check your email before sending it. It’s quick and easy to do and you’ll give a better impression than if it looks like you weren’t that interested in putting time into it.

5… NO FOUL LANGUAGE

There is a time and place for everything… but dirty words in emails to a prospective new friend is not one of them. Even the occasional bad word can be enough to put some people off the idea of furthering the relationship.

6… BE AWARE OF EARS DROPPERS

Everything you say in Emails can be read by a third party without your knowledge. So be careful what you say to people. Last thing you want is all your workmates finding out you like to dress up as a fairy on week-ends and stand on street corners.

7… MULTIPLE ADDRESS

This is especially important if you intend to join more than one Dating site. By having different email addresses you can easily keep tabs on which websites get you the most, and even more importantly the best email responses

8… USE ABBREVIATIONS

If you want to look cool, then use the message abbreviations that are listed in Chat Room Etiquette. There used by everyone these days on the Internet, especially chat rooms.

9… DON’T LET THEM HANG

You’re interested in them. They’re interested in you. Make sure you keep the flame alive by responding to emails promptly. A day or two in between should be the max. If you’re unable to write back because of certain circumstances, make sure to let them know!

The magic nine! Keep these in mind and you’ll appear to be the superstar we know you are