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Feminist porn an oxymoron, or a revolution?
My first experience attempting to rent porn was a miserable failure. In the windowless backroom of a suburban fetish shop my boyfriend had brought me to, next to floor-to-ceiling racks of videotapes, I asked the diminutive 50-something proprietor if she had any feminist porn. “There’s no such thing,” she snapped. “What do you actually want?”

I didn’t manage to express it then, but what I wanted was to avoid the formula. You know the one: Ditzy, whiny blonde, with surgically enhanced breasts and ribs showing, meets OK looking guy with really big dick, he forces himself on her and she decides she likes it. He comes on her face. Repeat with slight variations. To quote an online reviewer at bluedoor.com : “Eeewwww.”

According to a quick survey of mine, that reviewer and I are not alone. “All the porn I’ve been exposed to is focused almost solely on the pleasure and satisfaction of the men involved or men watching,” says one college-age woman. And many people said the prevalence of rape and other violence is just creepy. All too frequently, “sex for a man appears to be an act of revenge—payback for his many frustrated desires,” says one guy. “The message . . . seems to be, ‘Take that, bitch. Who’s got the power now?’ It’s ugly.”

And then there’s the bodies. “Most women want to see themselves reflected on the screen sometimes, and very few do,” says Dr. Carol Queen, staff psychologist for Good Vibrations, a women-owned, women-friendly sex-toys store. Or, as one straightforward guy puts it: “The concept that you need to have some nipple-scraping, bust-enhancing surgery to be sexy to others is disgusting.”

Marianna Beck, Ph.D., and Jack Hafferkamp, Ph.D., co-editors of Libido Magazine (www.libidomag.com), have been on the receiving end of lots of video porn. In Hefferkemp’s professional opinion, most of it is “stupid, ugly, demeaning, antisexual, full of bad information, and patriarchal, by which I mean as much as it strives to be bad, it just reinforces a bunch of stereotypes.” ’Nuf said.

But can it be anything else? For a long time, some very prominent feminists, first among them Andrea Dworkin, have said no. Dworkin maintains that pornography is necessarily a process of dehumanizing women, period. Others think trying to make porn feminist will defeat the purpose. “Feminist porn [is] diluted. You remove all the lust from it,” said Camille Paglia in a 1993 interview in Puritan. “Feminist porn’s absurd. I’m totally against it. I like regular porn.”

But there’s a growing chorus of people who identify as sex-positive and think both Dworkin and Paglia are off-base. They are demanding movies that will turn them on without turning them off, and some folks are starting to deliver.

For its first 15 years, Good Vibrations didn’t carry porn, because its founder didn’t believe women were interested in it, says Queen. But then a generation of women came to work for the store who told her women were interested, they just needed help navigating through the tons of dreck that’s out there. And so the Good Vibes video library (www.goodvibes.com) was born. “From the very beginning, women were like, ‘Thank goodness. We really want someone we trust to help show us through this,’” says Queen.

Annie Sprinkle, a former mainstream porn actress who now does sexual performance art and holds a doctorate in human sexuality (www.anniesprinkle.com), notes that “porn is new to women, so I’m not sure they know what they like exactly.”

They may not be able to name their favorite directors, but many of the people I spoke to knew at least what their ground rules would be: “women shown doing things for their own pleasure,” “greater variety in the roles women play and the body shapes shown,” “good chemistry between the characters,” “women are the subject rather than just the objects of sexual desire,” and “no heels!”

“Feminist porn would look like the sex lives of my friends (straight, gay, bi, trans, and poly!),” summarizes one woman in an e-mail message. “It would be like a real-life soap opera,” complete with occasionally short-lived erections, ripped clothing, mismatched libidos, and honest-to-god chemistry between lovers, she says.

To meet these varied goals, Good Vibes tries to pull the gems from the mainstream industry and seek out alternative and independent producers. They look for respectful portrayals of women and their sexuality, and real sexual energy. And, notes Queen, “We’re not crazy about really stupid plots.” Symbols in their catalog identify videos with: a focus on women’s pleasure; presence of people of color; good chemistry; decent plot; safe sex; unconventional acts; and even “woman penetrates man with strap-on dildo” (customers want to know how to use the other merchandise, right?).

And, oh yeah, it’s also supposed to be hot. Possible? Yes. In my random sample from the Good Vibes rental site, I lucked into Urban Friction, produced by Beck and Hafferkamp. It features a young and attractive—but not stick-thin, airbrushed or surgically altered (if you don’t count tattoos)—couple who are into fulfilling each other’s fantasies, but the woman is nervous that her boyfriend can’t handle her desire to have a three-way with another guy. Hot, explicit fantasy scenes are overlaid on lots of sex with each other as they figure out their relationship parameters. Condoms are used, but as a matter of course, with no preachy overtones. The women are smart, take initiative, and have real orgasms—ditto for the guys, for that matter. The spacious and lavish city apartments may be the only things that actually call for a suspension of disbelief. What’s not to like?

Not every attempt, even in the Good Vibes library, hits quite that standard. Ageless Desire, three scenes of real couples of over 50 getting it on, was shot like a documentary, and while it succeeds in reminding viewers that sex over 50 can still be good, it was also often stiff and full of corny, forced-sounding dirty talk. For me, Bobby Sox, which got several thumbs ups from a range of reviewers, triggered almost every complaint about mainstream porn.

“If we stuck with feminist porn, our shelves would be very sparse,” admits Queen, who defines feminist porn as that made with the specific intention to change the face of porn and deal with gender-equity issues. Good Vibes carefully notes that their “focused on women’s pleasure” rating does not necessary involve feminist content. “Any director that does a good job of depicting women’s pleasure, even accidentally, could get that rating,” says Queen.

“You can’t assume what women want,” warns Queen, noting that many women of all persuasions like gay male porn, don’t like plot, or are into extreme sexual acts. Condescending assumptions gave us a lot of wimpy women’s erotica full of “elevator music and no exchange of bodily fluids,” complains Beck.

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Many of these porn pioneers prefer to think of the goal as expanding the diversity of what porn offers: from feel-good consciousness- raising work like Zen Pussy (vulva shots) to hardcore BDSM where consent and context is explicit; from educational videos on female ejaculation to fantastical romps with carefully diverse casts. “In the ’70s there was one kind of porn, like a tree trunk, and then it started branching out,” says Sprinkle. “If you don’t like the porn that’s out there, make some that you do like.”

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